8/17/23

Dear O and C,

Your mother is not a very nice person.  I have not spoken to her in almost three years, except through attorneys or through a third party.  Then, today, on my birthday, she sends me your dentist bill and tells me I have to pay half.  Paying half is not the issue.  I’ve always paid half of all of your bills. The issue is that she made the very conscious choice to do this on my birthday, a day she knows well.  She is manipulative, vindictive, and evil.  Mind you, over the years, I have reached out to her on several occasions, asking to pass messages on to you, or asking if I could speak with you.  Of course, she never responded to any of my messages.  However, she did contact me through her lawyers and threatened to sue me for harassment.  So, should I threaten to sue her for harassment because she sent me this email?  Of course, I would never do that.  I wouldn’t waste either of our time or money. I still find it hilarious, cruel, and ironic that the $1700 per month I pay your mother in child support goes towards her attorney bills, rather than something like healthy food or new clothing.  I am essentially paying your mother to alienate the two of you from me.  Also, she still has the nerve to keep my last name as part of her email address.  Go figure. This woman will do anything and everything she can to mentally torture me.  I have to admit, she’s really good at mental torture.  She actually used to do this to you, too. But that’s a conversation for when you are older. Anyway, we all have our strengths, I guess. And your mother’s strengths seem to be mental torture, financial destruction, and robbing two awesome kids have what could have been a very healthy, happy childhood despite the divorce.  It won’t be long until we are completely estranged. I am hoping that this is what you truly want, as it is becoming reality. Regardless, please know that it isn’t what I want. I love you, and I always will.


Love,

Dad

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