06/19/22

Dear O and C,

Happy Father’s Day.  I have to say it to myself, because you guys aren’t around to wish me a Happy Father’s Day.  It’s honestly very sad. I cried so hard today.  I just miss you guys so much.  After all, I’m only a father because of you two.  No father should ever have to live without his children in his life.  It’s the biggest crime and travesty in the world.  No kids should have to grow up without a father.  That too is the biggest crime and travesty in the world.  The whole situation we’re going through is a disaster.  I’ll never in my life know what your mother’s motivation for doing this was, or is.  You have to be the most malicious, and evil person to not let your children see or talk to their father.  There are prisoners, who have committed murder, who have more parental rights than I do.  I’ll never understand that for the life of me.  Your mother has put up so many barriers and roadblocks preventing me from seeing or talking to you guys.  Every time I meet her requirements, she adds new ones.  It’s as if the finish line is constantly moving, and I’ll never reach it.  Every time I get close, it moves further away.  The alienation that is occurring between us should be illegal.  I understand protecting children from a dangerous parent, and I’m all for protecting the safety of the children.  But that is not the case here.  You are being kept away from a fully functional, safe, sober, and loving father.  That should be a crime.  The parental alienation taking place will no doubt cause way more damage than any proclaimed abuse that ever took place by me, towards you.  

I remember the last Mother’s Day, before your mother filed the Ex-Parte.  I bought your mother a huge bouquet of flowers, a bottle of wine, and a card.  Of course, you both filled out the card and we deemed the gifts to be from you.  But I definitely made an effort to make your mother feel appreciated.  The irony is that last Father’s Day, before the ex-Parte was filed, your mother gave me back my beverage carrier with two beers, two Cokes, and two Sprites for us to enjoy.  This is wildly ironic because if she really thought I had a drinking problem, the way she has proclaimed in the court documents, then why in the world was she giving me beer as a gift?   It could only be one of two reasons.  Either she didn’t really think I had a drinking problem or she was setting me up.  Regardless of the motivation, that is a very lousy thing to do to someone. That was the last Father’s Day gift I’ve ever received from you guys.  So, again, Happy Father’s Day, to me.  I wish nothing more than to be able to spend another Father’s Day with you boys someday.  


Love, 

Dad


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