09/09/22

Dear O and C,

    Well, it’s no surprise, your mother is trying to postpone the custody process yet again.  The judge’s orders were as clear as day, and yet, your mother and her attorney are disputing them.  Nothing surprises me anymore.  I’ve seen and been through so much.  I’m more even keeled and level headed now than I’ve ever been before.  It’s honestly a really good place to be.  My expectations are never too high, my disappointments never get me too low.  I hang out right in the middle, in a place of peace, calm and serenity.  That being said, I am still frustrated by how your mother is approaching this situation.  Honestly, she should be happy about all of the work I have done to become a better person and father.   She should be happy that I’ve been so pursuant of having a relationship with my two sons, and have done everything that’s been asked of me, and then some.  I just hope that we can begin to navigate this process unimpeded, and with no more obstacles or obstructions.  Your mother should know, and the two of you should know, that I will never give up on pursuing a relationship with you. I will do whatever it takes.  I am here for you now, and I will always be here for you, for the rest of your lives.  I am ready to show you that I can be a loving, responsible, respectful, dedicated, and committed father.  I very much look forward to the opportunity when I get to show you.  


Love,

Dad

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