08/13/22

Dear O and C,

    I have been working tirelessly on getting the two of you back in my life.  We were supposed to have a court date earlier this month but your mother had it postponed so you could go on vacation.  I know you flew somewhere because your mother stated that she couldn’t change the flight.  I have a feeling you went to New Jersey, but I don’t know for sure.  Wherever you went, I hope you had a great time.  Meanwhile, I’ve been waiting for my day in court for over a year.  My attorney and I tried to work things out with your mother outside of court, however, she wouldn’t agree to let me begin reunification therapy with you guys.  So, it was her choice to have the matter settled in court, in front of a judge.  This of course means more money recklessly and unnecessarily being spent on attorney fees.  I’m actually hopeful the judge will side with me during the next hearing.  I’ve done absolutely everything I can to prove to the court that I am a responsible father. Furthermore, all I am asking for at this time is reunification therapy and supervised visitation.  I’m asking for any form of legal or physical custody.  I’ve gone about this process in a very responsible and realistic way, and I can’t see how a judge wouldn’t recognize that.  For the first time in almost two years, I’m hopeful that the judge might rule in my favor.  That’s not to say I’m not nervous: I’m terrified.  However, my hard work, determination, and progress as a human being speaks for itself.  I’ve owned up to my mistakes, and I’ve done everything in my power to rectify them.  I’ve taken all of the necessary steps to right my wrongs.  I’m ready to be back in your lives, and to be the best version of myself I can be for the two of you.  We all deserve that.  Court is in two days.


Love,

Dad

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