04/25/23



Dear O and C,

    Yesterday, I received yet another email from my lawyer detailing how your mother had filed another request with the court. Her evil and borderline psychotic behavior is becoming highly concerning, as well as taxing. I can’t imagine how it is to live with her right now. This time, she is requesting a live court testimony from the two of you.  That’s right, she wants the two of you to testify against your own father in live court.  That is abuse.  That is cruelty against a child.  That is the ultimate act of mind control and manipulation, committed against two innocent victims—her own children. She is mentally unstable, sick if you will, and rapidly getting worse it seems. If someone does not put an end to her repulsive behavior soon, it will be absolutely detrimental to the two of you.  It makes my stomach turn and my heart ache to think about the lessons she is teaching you and the messaging you are receiving about how to live your life. She’s teaching you that if you don’t always get your way, the best thing to do is litigate through court.  She is sending you the message that it is acceptable to lie, manipulate, and ruin other people’s lives, as long as it benefits your own.  I fear that two are going to need so much help to undo all of your mothers’ tragic wrongdoings.  I assure you, I will always be here for you, whether or not you choose to accept me back into your lives.  Even if you don’t, I hope you are able to receive the help you need.  If financially is the only way I’m ever able to contribute to your lives again, then so be it.  That will be my contribution.  

    Your mother is also subpoenaing CA, the family therapist who worked with me for four sessions, before absolutely assassinating my character.  This woman doesn’t even know me, and never did.  She doesn’t know the two of you either.  She has absolutely nothing to do with our case.  It is mind-boggling to know that your mother thinks CA will have some bearing on our current case. The truth is, your mother doesn’t like the fact that the current reunification therapist said that our sessions are going well.  Furthermore, I am guessing she didn’t like the report that the mediator wrote up, which probably recommended that we continue with reunification therapy.  Again, if something doesn’t go exactly your mother’s way, then her answer is to ruin everything and everyone around her until people either give in to her or give up.  She realized I’m not ever going to give in to her, and now she is attempting to make me give up.  You think she would have noticed by now that I am never giving up on the two of you.  You are my children, my everything.  I helped bring you into this world.  You are my responsibility.  I will care for you, in every capacity that I can, forever.  


Love,

Dad

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